
You shouldn't press any buttons with the magnet in the Min slot.
The minutes should advance with magnet in the min slot.
The hours should advance with magnet in the hour slot.
With both buttons pressed and magnet in hour slot, date should advance.
With left button pressed and magnet in hour slot, month should advance.
It looks to me like the only problem is that the hour reed switch isn't activating. If this is the case, the only thing you'll be able to set is minutes. Try different orientations of the magnet in the hour slot.........twisting, rotating, angling etc. If that doesn't work, try a stronger magnet.
Also be aware that sometimes with the magnet in the recesses, the command reed switches will activate (they're quite close-by). This is probably why you get running seconds showing. You have to fiddle around to find the sweet spot that activates only the relevant setting reed

Rgds.